Thursday, September 28, 2017

She gets mad too!


(Photo: Melissa Danielson )


This little lady has her moments. No, she's not always happy, she's not always sad or mad either. She's a regular 3 year old. In fact today at school, they told me she's a bit "naughty" like all the other kids in the classroom they said. 

I have to say I was shocked and it did bring me to tears. I'm not perfect in any way, I'm just a mom who wants her children to be loved and to be accepted. I was brought to tears because I want for Jordan Grace to be herself. However, she learns by watching, she imitates anything, ANYTHING, anyone does, good or bad, she does it! 

It's a blessing in some ways that she's great at imitating, but it's a curse when she imitates and gets caught doing things wrong. You see, she won't tell on anyone, but others tell on her. She fights her own fights and I need to let her do it. 

But today, I was emotional and mad, and needed to get my point across. Today, I observed a little girl take all of my daughter's materials away, I saw this little girl take advantage of my little girl and this mama bear was not a happy camper! My blood boiled. However, i said to the little girl as kindly as I could "you need to share." And then I told on her! Yes, I did!!! 

I called the teacher right over and I explained what I saw. I know I can't always be there to stand up for her, or to teach her what others are doing is wrong, but I also can't help my heart breaking when I see others disregard my precious one. 

I have the most faith in her! I know she will fight for what she wants, today, she chose to give the little girl all her materials and show kindness, another day she might have grabbed on to the cotton ball for dear life. This is my girl! This is the girl I'm proud of, the kind one, the fighter, the loving one, the sweet one, the determined one, the joyous one, the moody one, the one who brings us daily sunshine! I'm proud of all of her! 🌸

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